Me And My Dad Cheat Game
A few weeks ago, I discovered that my father is cheating on my mother. It shocked me much, as they’ve been married for 25 years already, and as it seemed to me, they were happy together. They never quarreled with each other, never shouted at each other. Their relations were an example for me as ideal ones, they were so supportive, understanding and stable, that I never thought that such a situation can happen in my family.
Try to beat up all kids and smash everything that comes in your way. Perform combo attacks and conquer the whole city with your aggressive father together. My Father Cheats On My Mother. October 19, 2012 / Dr. Much of your love-life thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are learned. Your most important teachers are members of your own family of origin. You learn mostly by observing what members of your family experience in their love-lives.
Once my dad forgot his phone at home and went to work. When he realized this, he asked me to bring it to him. Without any joy, I threw the phone into my bag and went to the bus station. When I was on my way, someone saved as ‘Baby<3’ called him several times. I didn’t dare to pick up the phone. Some minutes later the message ‘Dear, can’t wait for you to come to me. Have you already told your wife that you’re leaving for a business trip next week?‘ appeared on the screen of his phone. At first, I couldn’t believe my eyes, after a while, I was so angry that I was ready to сrash this phone. I wanted to read his messages, but there was a password on the phone!
I didn’t know what to do next, I decided that there wasn’t enough evidence, one message can’t destroy our family. I made a decision to know whether there are any apps that allow monitoring someone’s phone. With their help, I’d be able to know more about his activity and to refute or to confirm my suspicions. Luckily I found a good spy app, that allowed tracking his text messages, calls, social media, and instant messages. I doubted whether I acted correctly, whether I had a right to monitor his phone without permission, but I wanted to clarify the situation, to be 100% sure before I tell my mom.
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After the installation of the spying app, I was really surprised when I found out that he was chatting with this woman for an extended period. This app really was a discovery for me. Without any problems, I could anonymously track his phone. I didn’t know whether I should tell my mom everything or not, and if I should, how should I do this not to hurt her.
Pretending that everything’s okay was impossible, but I didn’t want to break up my family. I was always nervous and couldn’t keep this secret anymore, as it was unbearable to see how my father was deceiving and telling lies to my mother. I didn’t want to lose my dad, as we were close with each other.
One day we planned to dinner together, it was our family tradition to spend Friday’s evening together playing different board games, watching films or walking together in the park. My mother cooked an excellent dinner, but the father didn’t come. He said that he had an important business meeting with his Norwegian partners. My mother and I were upset. I suspected that he had no business meeting and he went out on a date with his, I don’t know how to name her, girlfriend.
I used the spy application to track his location and knew that he had been at his favorite restaurant, not at the office. I decided to went to that restaurant to be convinced that he had been here with that woman. That was the final straw, I couldn’t pretend anymore. That evening I decided to tell everything to my mom. I got tongue-tied, couldn’t compile my thoughts and didn’t know how to start.
When I told her everything, she couldn’t believe her ears, burst out crying and asked me whether I had some evidence. I showed her the app, where there were a call history, lovesome messages, their photos. My mother was confused, but she said that she had suspected that. I feel guilty of breaking up our family. I don’t know whether I acted correctly.
It was a difficult period for my family, now we are living in harmony with my mother, and I regularly communicates with my father, our relations are in good repair. I don’t blame him, he made a mistake, but who doesn’t make them? I want to give some tips to those who are in the same situation:
- Don’t get into the relationship of parents, let them solve the problem between themselves.
- Whatever happens, they are still your parents, that love you more than anything else in the world.
- Don’t blame anyone, it is all in a lifetime.
It was difficult for me to accept the challenge, but I was mature enough to understand everything. Now my primary duty is to care about my mother, support and love her.
As anyway, it’s difficult to pass through cheating. However, she tries to dissimulate her feelings, I understand how it hurt her and how she feels.
Much of your love-life thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are learned. Your most important teachers are members of your own family of origin. You learn mostly by observing what members of your family experience in their love-lives.
The good news is, if you’ve learned something about love that is complicating your love-life, you can unlearn it and learn something better. This is one of the greatest things about being a human being.
Growing up in a family where your father cheats on your mother, you are bound to learn a lot dysfunctional things about ‘commitment’ from your parents. For example, if your mother stays with your father knowing (but not knowing) that he is cheating on her, she is teaching her children that cheating is a tolerable marital offense. Meaning it’s not bad enough to leave your spouse over.
Under the right conditions you may reenact this lesson in your own love-life. You might marry a man or woman who cheats on you and you end up tolerating it just like your mother tolerated your father’s cheating.
Another lesson learned in this kind of love-life situation is, under the right conditions you can cheat on your spouse and get away with it. One of those ‘right’ conditions is to pick a spouse with the kind of personality that will adapt to this lack of commitment. Most likely, a man or woman whose self-esteem is low enough not to challenge you if and when when she or he catches you because he or she has conflicts about directly confronting someone she loves.
Remember, if you grew up with a father who cheated on a tolerating mother, you learned both of these love-life lessons simultaneously. Which lesson ends up being enacted depends upon the personality of your spouse and the conditions established in your relationship. It is very common for the offspring of such a family situation to either cheat or be cheated upon in their love relationships. Sometimes both alternately in the course of a relationship. The hard part is, most of this will be beyond your awareness.
In my practice I have encountered people who never change this reenactment of their family history. For the course of their love-lives they remain negatively influenced by the love-life commitment problems of their fathers and mothers. This tragic consequence is very common. Another group of people change this seemingly inevitable consequence only ‘after’ they have suffered an experience of separation and divorce. They reenact this love-life problem, suffer its consequences, then make the required changes in themselves and their love-lives in later love relationships.
And of course there are those individuals, fewer in number to be sure, who change themselves and their love-lives after they’ve become aware of what they have learned about love and ‘before’ enacting it in a marriage. Fortunately, this latter group gets to avoid much of the suffering this kind of love-life problem can cause.
If your father cheated (or cheats) on your mother, the first step in unplugging his commitment problem from your love-life is to understand and admit to yourself that he, your beloved father, has a big commitment problem. You have to take all the false glory and rationalizations out of it. You have to debunk all the excuses and reasons that were given to explain why it happened.
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You have to see this for what it is, a tragically limited, disrespectful, abusive way of dealing with personal problems that reflects a sorry absence of courage and love. Only then will you be able to begin challenging cheating as a probable learned solution to your love-life difficulties.
From there you have to accept the fact that you simply don’t know anything better at this point in time. If you’ve been able to witness something better in other family of origin love relationships, you’re lucky. Make those family relationships a conscious reference for how men and women should love and work in a marriage. If you can’t find a healthier reference than your parents’ love-life together, expect to start from scratch.
What this means is, you have to accept the fact that a big chunk of what you’ve learned about love doesn’t work. You know that by simply checking the limitations of your parents’ relationship. You now realize you have to re-invent your own love-life. Do it like you’d do some project around the house. Put some time into it. Research and learn from people who know what healthy love is, either in person or through reading.
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Outgrowing your father’s cheating and your mother’s tolerance of it will feel like a liberation in time. For all your trouble and effort, your reward is a better love-life for you, that you can pass onto your kids if you have some. Android game with cheats.
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